Meaningful Thought...

One of my friend blogged something meaningful to her blog the other day, its regarding relationship. The question goes like this "How do you perceive a relationship?" The content of the blog is related to Family, Friend and Love relationship. I find her post so right and meaningful where i would like to this opportunity to make a duplicate of her topic and to voice out my view as well.

Family
Family would be the first and most essential love or relationship of all to each of us. Why? Like the Chinese saying, we don't break out of rock, so we all would have parents which is also known as our parents. In general, our parents aka family would be the first person we meet and also to care for us in this world since our birth. Therefore the Family is the most essential and also valuable to us before achieving the love of Friend and Love. With Family love, we would be able to receive support and care from then as we progress thru the path of childhood, from the age of 1 and above. Family love is not only available during the young days, but also throughout the rest of our life. Why? As all parents would behave, their child is forever their child regardless of what age their child have achieved and they would always have the love of their family. Most of all, they would be willing to support and care no matter what situation that he/she encounter. Isn't the Family love being wonderful of all where it starts from the moment we are born until the end of our journey of life.

For me, i am blessed with a good family members, being supportive and helpful at most time. I once thought why my parents were being so strict with me previously and also care for me so much all the time. But now as i grew elder, i have understand the need of this and also know that if without what my parents have done previously, it would be hard to be whom i am now. Thanks daddy, mummy and all :)

P/s: The above is on a general basis where the child lives and being with their family and not of those on special cases where either the parents not with the kid or those kids that live under broken family where not able to receive the full of Family love.

Friend
Friends would be the most common in life unless if we choose not to befriend with anyone. If we open out our heart to those around us, it will be easy for us make friends, but regardless if the friend is out of pure heart of not, but that really depends on how to make sure that friendship is of pure and both mean for the best of the friendship. Friends would be the one that we spend most of our time in life, either we call it as school friends, college friends, university friends, working colleague/friends and other individual we meet throughout the way. Friend will be the one whom we share secrets, problem, spend time, hanging out together, doing some crazy things while being young and etc. Without the love of friends, our life would be so boring and rather dull, also when we need someone to be by our side, either to support us or help us in any way, then if without them it would be something regretful in life as we live the life in emptiness, without friends to be part of our life.

My bunch of friends that i have developed throughout the years, i have no complaints with them. They are great friends and i do admit that some of them i have lost contact and also some have got distance as we get busy with our daily life or distance grew between us, but i deeply remember those great time that we have shared in part of our life together, as great pal or friends. I hope in the days and years to come, we would be able to reunite and catch up on old times and i do think i need to find the time to locate most of you :)

Love
Having said about family and friends, i would have to reach Love finally. Love, it is so magical yet best thing that could ever happen. Why magical? As we would never have been lovers if we were never been Friends and after we been Friends, we could then proceed on to Love each other as a special one in our life time. What happens after Love? Then he/she would be Family, the Family of his/her in their life. See how the family of one got extended, also extended would be the friends of life for both he and she. See the magical of it? Not only that, having said about the magical part of what i have mentioned just now, imagine having found someone whom you truly love and care(from both sides), isn't that magical? Our love that we find to be the eternal, might not be the first love or the second, it might be the third, ten or more as the journey to look for someone compatible and suitable, that is never easy so that both can build a life of their own. Having the loved ones, then we would be able to rely more to them for most of the things that happen in our daily life, not that we need their help to solve each and every issue identified or to do each things together, but having someone to share some stories, jokes, happenings, laughter, sadness, grieve and etc is always blessful as we need not go through all those alone. I admit that we can always share that with friends, but do remember that friends might not be available 24x7 but hopefully our love one could be avaiable more than that :P

For my case, i have found my love :) Though it took quite some journey and time consuming also it does gave me the bad names at some time as some may have perceived me as player, where i like to play about, flirt here and there. Yes i agree that i flirt, who doesn't flirt being with great individuals? So that we gain acknowledgement and so that they take notice of our existance. I don't really want to walk past someone and that person never took notice of me, no i don't want to be that. So most of the time, while being friendly some may perceive it as flirting. Sigh, can't change how some people may perceive some things of a gesture of friendliness as flirtatious. But to heck with their view or belief, i know what i am doing :) and i know i am not what they perceive me as. Everytime i get know to anyone or a friend, i am being true to them and not with that intention of - I am going to tackle that girl and etc... I am happy being with my loved one now and great that i have found her :) I love her much :D

Hmm...guess that is what i have to say now, if there is more to be said after this where i remember more, i would certainly add it in :) Sigh, a little tired already after blogging so long, let me listen to some music to relax a bit :) Cheers, and may all have the best one deserve for Family, Friends and LOVE !!!

What a tiring day ...

Yesterday, i gave the few girls of Rumah Sayangan the replacement class that i promised the day before as i was nto able to make it to them as i was too tired and fatique, at the same time having a slight headache also.

Yesterday, i off work earlier as yesterday i was on shift, last day so should off by 4pm. But on that day, i still have to rush to Cyberjaya to Scopetel to pick up the 2 servers that we have placed it there previously. We were a bit late as we (me and Razmi) were having some training with Ee Vern and doing some practical. After the practical, we rush to the Scopetel and then back to office. At first was arranging to have a group dinner, me, Ee Vern and Winnie but lastly called off as Winnie needs to meet up with some designer for some artwork issue. So only left me and Ee Vern to have dinner. We have some chat for some time before i send her back to office while i proceed on to the Rumah Sayangan for tuition.

I was kind of tired, but this is something meaningful, so i took a deep breath and then walked into the house. Only i notice that the other two gals, Cindy and Angeline have followed Susan to Seremban, hence i was only left with Ruby. She played up as she was the only one that had to undergo tutorial and did complain quite some time before i manage to get her to focus a bit to do some of the work that i have prepared.

After one hour plus, i decided to call it a day so i took my way out and back home i went. After giving tuition to her, i felt quite relief and contented as i have the chance to help out those needy. Perhaps i would be going for one of the charity dinner held by the committee of the shelter homes to aid one of the home that just lost one of the founder where they are left without any directions and also lack of aids. I might be going with her to the dinner :)

12th General Election year 2008

The election is over already and it seems that this time round, there seems to be a bigger change than the previous years for election where the opposition were getting more support from the people. Surprisingly, the opposition were able to hold on to 5 states, namely Selangor, Perak, Penang, Kedah and Kelantan. From these, it means that BN have lost 4 this year which is the Selangor, Kedah, Penang and Perak where normally these states were under the ruling of BN.

This could be the greatest change in Malaysia history where opposition would have more saying power within the parliament and also in the political. Let us see how great things can be but it seems that it might not be easy for the opposition to share things/power out among them. May our country prosper further with the new change.

Dr Siva - Your the MAN !!!

Haha...nice heading? Anyway, last Sunday was Siva's wedding ceremony which i fail to attend as i was working on that particular day. However i would like to take this chance to wish him, DONT PLAY AROUND ANYMORE!!! YOU ARE A MARRIED MAN!!! LEAVE ALL THE CHICKS TO ME :p

Kaka...Just kidding, wish you in a happy marriage and since he is a half Chinese, so wish him 'Cho Sang Kuai Chi'. Below is the photos that some of our guys took throughout the ceremony. Enjoy.

 

Kes Tumpang Gembira !!!

Better Late Than Never

Kuan Ming has left Malaysia for Australia for his studies on the fifth day of CNY. Was not able to get hold of the photos that were taken during his farewell dinner until now. So here is the photos that was taken. Only several attended as it was kind of a last minute arrangement and also during the CNY celebration. The dinner was at Spring Garden, KLCC.

Not feeling well again

Sigh... Today i am resuming my work after resting for about 5 days. Through out the 5 days, i have been resting in my house as i was still having cold from the previous week. As for this week, i will be working for the weekend shift from Thursday (today) until Sunday before i would be able to have 3 days of off day.

These day the weather is quite bad and unpredictable with sudden change of climate and etc. Sigh, now getting cold i guess, need to rest more later in order to recover soon or as soon as possible so that i would not have a dreadful working week for now.

Someone will be leaving Malaysia soon, into a distance country for few week while working there for the time being. As for me, will not be able to see the person for some time. Hope things goes well for her there as it would be her first time traveling abroad for work related.

CNY 2008 - House Visiting

Yesterday was the 10th day of CNY for the year 2008. We decided to have a house to house visit for the group of us as old time friends. In the morning, me and sarah went to the Thien Hou Temple to pray and also to snap a few shots. Then later proceed to Sun Ming @ Tmn Connaught to have lunch, duck rice before meeting up with Winnie and the rest at her house.

As usual, Chin Yong was late and hence we only able to depart from Winnie's house at about 2.30pm, nearing to 3pm. First we went to Kien Yap's house. Her mum was there, lots of chatting. Then later proceed to EeVern's house for a while, later only drove two roads down to reach Kee Hon's house where we start visiting his new house and then start with our mahjong session in his house.

Later we proceed to dinner and then later i send Sarah back to her house before i proceed to Win Khong's house for session 2 of the mahjong. At last we proceed home after about 1am in the morning.

The photos that i took for the whole day is as below:

T6 rig photos...

These would be the slideshow of the photos that i took while i was on the T6 rig early of this month.



Lucky got the two guys that was hanging out with me while i was on the rig, else it could be even more boring :)

I am the witness

This was posted by one of my friend online and therefore i have read it and became the witness to this therefore i shall be doing my job by admitting that i witness this and published on my blog site. The story as below.

So sweet. Hereby, i wish the both of them, to be together happily ever after :)

Today is Valentines Day?

Today, 14 February 2008 would be also called as the Valentines Day, where it is the traditional day on which lovers express their love for each other by sending Valentine's cards, presenting flowers, or offering confectionery.

Yesterday when i was in Leisure Mall, i saw the flower shop was busy preparing for the night where they would be selling those flowers from yesterday night up to tonight. When i walked along the corridor for the Leisure Mall heading towards the car park, never smelt so much of flower smell before :)

Then when i was travelling back to home yesterday night past midnight, i saw a lot of people were selling those flowers along the Bangsar area. This is the normal tradition every year and seems this year might be a good sales for them.

Then when i turn up for work this morning, i went to the pantry and heard some chit chats here and there. Some were saying "Its Valentines Day, so wear more pretty than usual", some were commenting "I asked my husband what's the plan for this Thursday, all he asked was what so special about Thursday and the conversation ended there" and some were highlighting the differences between man before marriage and after marriage, it was mainly about what the man would do before marriage on Valentines Day and what the man would normally tend to forget after getting married :) With all these chats, i was a little excited to blog it. Haha... Why only Valentines only want to make the day special by going out? How nice if the wife or girl friend would be able to cook for their loved ones, where they can spend some time together, rather than to pre-book for tables weeks before the actual day or lining up for hours for a small table for two or even bad service at restaurant, delayed food serving time and food quality and best of all, over paid food. Does not mean that the female must cook for the male, it always could be the other way round. One of my guy friend, he knows how to cook, much better than his gf, so he does cook for her once in a while, he also cook for us (one bunch of friends) also, especially his crab dish :) Opps, providing too much of information is not good.

As for me, not sure how my Valentines Day going to be, it might be a little special this year :) Might end up giving tuition to some one needy :) More details later :)