My circle of friend consist of a few good friend where we were brought together by fate. Why we commonly call our self a circle? The reason is the way how we communicate and care for each other. We tend to share our thoughts, laughter and also secrets together. It is weird as the three of us have the chance to meet together and had the same frequency to hang out together despite our different background. We never studied together or knew each other when we were young, but somehow we manage to go against all odd.
All would says that the circle consist of the three of us. Is that really true? To me, it actually consist more than that. Ever wonder how to draw a perfect circle on a piece of paper? You can draw a circle using freehand, even a small kid would know how to do this but would that circle be a perfect circle?
No it would not be a perfect circle. I remember my art teacher once told me, to draw a perfect circle, you would need to have a mid-point and from that mid-point the circle line can be drawn from the mid-point. With this, the circle drawn would be perfect, without much jagged edge.
The three of us have been a perfect circle all the while, but the reason why it is so, it would be due to the middle dot in the circle where it ensure that the circle line is at the correct length. This dot refers to one single person that have co-existed with our circle. So the truth is that our circle can be seen as three person, but if we look closer it actually consist of four person. Without the fourth person, how would the circle be at the first place? It may not even be a circle after all. What if the circle looses the mid-point?
Thursday, June 28, 2007
Changes
When coming to changes, we will always refer to change in body mass, change in skin texture, change of favorite brands, change of job, change of some minor things. But we seldom realize that the change can be as a whole where it could reflect to daily life or namely one’s life. Changes in one’s life can never be avoided, or planned accordingly and normally it will lead on to another change.
Change? Changes. Changing. Changed.
Change?
This is one of the element of life that is a must. There are variations of change. Starting from changing of diapers, changing of milk bottles, changing of shoes, changing of school, changing of teachers, changing of friends we mix with, changing of hobbies, changing of loved ones, changes in the number of our loved ones, changes in our age, changes of work life and so much more changes. It can be minor change, major change or drastic change. We can plan change in life (eg. when to change our clothing, when to change partners, when to change our friends or when to change our body parts – plastic surgery) and there is also unplanned change (eg. was planning to visit World Trade Center by year 2000 but who could have planned to go to the new WTC or the old WTC?). As mentioned, change is inevitable and unavoidable but we can always review our change and to change according to changes that is deemed best. A change can lead to more change and changes can change you. Why let changes change you rather than you change yourself?
Changes.
We finally know that change is on the way. Somehow we would not be able to avoid change as we bound to change in different part of our life. How can we plan change in our life? We often think hard on how to change our life to the better, but perhaps we have thought wrongly. We often relate change to achievements in life. But change does not only reflect to achievement in terms of monetary value, position we held or the friends we mix with. I have found a good website that can provide us a simple guideline to implement change in our life on the balance way. The website address would be, http://stress.about.com/od/lowstresslifestyle/tp/happiness.htm . Some of the highlights and comments from the website is as below:
“We all want to be happy, and often we strive for that new car, bigger house, or promotion at work in order to find the elusive goal of a happy and satisfied life. However, often the car or house or new position come, but doesn't bring the happiness we expected. The following goals and changes can be relatively easily attained and can bring increased and lasting happiness. Now is the time to start incorporating them into your life!”
I totally agree with the above statements. Some people will say, they live to eat but to me I eat to live. Same as the above, I change to live a happy life not live to change myself. We change for a cause, the cause should not be just for the sake of change but for a deeper meaning in life where to achieve happiness J Just my thought, not all may agree to me though.
1. Find More Time For Yourself
“The feeling of not having enough freedom to pursue quality time with our families, revitalizing solitary activities, or other things that would nurture us can leave us feeling stressed and unhappy. If you would like to increase your level of happiness and life satisfaction this year, one of the best changes you can make is to find more time in your schedule for a life that reflects what you’d really like to be doing. These steps can help.”
Too much time is spend on chasing the quality of life but often we forget the essential necessity in life. Can differentiate between quality of life and essential necessity in life? One might have different interpretations of these, and I care not to elaborate further as I know most of people would understand this, just they often mixed up between the quality and the necessity. You may be able to earn tons of money for a day, perhaps up to 15 man hours, but what is left to enjoy those that we have sought. Who is there to wait for us to share the joy of the achievements? I can wait for a day, then another day, perhaps a few days more, if you are sincere I may wait up to a month, let say I have nothing much to do, I may wait up to a year but ever thinking what if it takes more than a year? Time past quicker than how we can realize and past time will never be replaced and there is obviously no turning back in life as there are no time machines in our life, if there is, how many times you would want to change your life as changes is never ending? So we should be fair in life, spend time to find quality in life, but do spend quality time enjoying the quality life that you have earned for. We can’t bring our wealth or fame to our grave, why not live life to the fullest? Don’t get me wrong, I am not asking you to spend your last cent before we check out of this world, we may leave some behind so that our loved ones need not work from zero up again. It is something like a small capital for our younger generations I guess.
2. Make Smart Money Choices
“Many people think they'll be happier if they can just get their hands on more money. However, once beyond the poverty level, more money doesn't usually bring more happiness, because with increased means often come increased desires. A more helpful solution is to make the money you already have to feel a greater sense of freedom and satisfaction in life. These tips can show you how to make the most of your current financial situation. “
Agree as human do have a sense of greed in them. There is always need to have, good to have and choice to have. It would be a need to have $1000.00 per month, but it would surely be good to have $1500.00 per month instead but if given the choice to have $2000.00 or more would not be too bad after all. We normally think that we do deserve the best in life and the best often refers to the infinite. Agree with me?
3. Take Care of Your Body
“If your health fails, it can overshadow everything else that’s going on in your life. From major health problems to minor aches and pains, health can really impact happiness and stress levels. Making a commitment to taking on healthier habits this year can have a far-reaching payoff: you’ll feel better in everything you do. Here are a few healthy habits that carry a big impact.”
Agree to this again. We always ask more for quality in life, but sickness and disease is never considered as one of them. What is quantity if there is no quality as we are sick and not well? We often ignore this as we took no notice of it until it is affected and we starts to regret by saying I should have done so and so but it is often too late already.
4. Adopt Stress Relievers That Work For You
“There are many things that contribute to a happy and satisfied feeling about life, but excess stress can put a damper on even the best conditions. If you're in a state of chronic stress, it's much more difficult to enjoy life. Find some stress relievers you can use and you will feel more at peace when things get hectic.”
Nothing much to explain on this, it is much self explanatory.
5. Get Involved In A Cause That You Believe In
“People are generally happier when they're living a life of meaning. And while you may not be able to cast off all of your worldly posessions in search of the true meaning of life, you can get involved in a cause that's important to you with minimal time, effort or cost. And even though you can get tax breaks, new friends or a cleaner house out of the deal, what you find in the way of life satisfaction will be the real reward. While you'll be helping others, you will truly receive more than you give. Why not start now?”
As the above states, we need to have a meaning to life in order to be generally happy. Find some worthy cause and work towards it, it will give you some other things to look at besides work. This is what we can say to achieve balance in life.
Changing.
This is what most of us are aware of, but took not much importance in life on this topic. Very seldom people would reflect the change on their life or bothered to review the changes that they have undergo. Perhaps most of the time, we are not trying hard to change, but we are trying hard to admit that one has change. We will always have the impression that the change was minimal and it has not much affect on one’s daily lifestyle. From my view, change is always change. Change is noticeable if one take the time to notice and review back the change that they have undergo. Just that sometimes we don’t bother to look at our changes as change happens so naturally, most of the time without us even noticing it. We just let it happen and having in mind it will just fall into its place, but do things just fall into its place or do we need to put in the effort as well? Why can’t we get some control of our life and determine where the things fall and we could arrange it in proper that taking our luck again.
Changed.
Many people may bump into you and says, you have had changes in life, you are a whole new you. That time, we realize that we have change. Why we realize? Because the comments came from someone else and would that comment be of positive or negative? Frankly, it could be both as words can be twisted and may have different meanings at different time. As were we being told that we have undergo some change without us planning or realizing it, now we know that change has taken place. But are we so naïve that we are unaware that change is taking place, perhaps we are too comfortable of the minor changes that is happen daily in life and eventually when we realize of the change, it already has been a big leap.
Changes-Changing-Changed is a cycle of changing in life for each individual. It is surely happen in our stages of life and it will have effect on life. To me, change is inevitable but we can always change to what we think would be best. Best here would always refers to myself, the people around me (I can’t be too selfish), to my loved ones, to my friends and to those who will walk in our life and would eventually leave their footprint in our life. We don’t change for a single cause but we do change as a whole. Changes can be good and can be bad. Good and bad may have different meaning after all and we can never define a single meaning for it.
My dear friend have gone through changes which I may never pint point as how I did last time. I can’t say changes were in the form of negative or positive, just that the changes that took place have change her as a whole. Despite the changes that have taken place, she will still be my dear friend for today and the days to come. Just that would always have the idea of turning back time in order to live the one time in life where we were all so comfortable with and where we have found our true self at the time. Sad to say, the time will never be the same, so does our friendship but I do know for sure you will always be my dear friend. This I am certain but I hope you don’t think that I have abandon you, I will never do such thing. Love you always and may you find your true happiness and don’t let it go once you find it my friend.
Change? Changes. Changing. Changed.
Change?
This is one of the element of life that is a must. There are variations of change. Starting from changing of diapers, changing of milk bottles, changing of shoes, changing of school, changing of teachers, changing of friends we mix with, changing of hobbies, changing of loved ones, changes in the number of our loved ones, changes in our age, changes of work life and so much more changes. It can be minor change, major change or drastic change. We can plan change in life (eg. when to change our clothing, when to change partners, when to change our friends or when to change our body parts – plastic surgery) and there is also unplanned change (eg. was planning to visit World Trade Center by year 2000 but who could have planned to go to the new WTC or the old WTC?). As mentioned, change is inevitable and unavoidable but we can always review our change and to change according to changes that is deemed best. A change can lead to more change and changes can change you. Why let changes change you rather than you change yourself?
Changes.
We finally know that change is on the way. Somehow we would not be able to avoid change as we bound to change in different part of our life. How can we plan change in our life? We often think hard on how to change our life to the better, but perhaps we have thought wrongly. We often relate change to achievements in life. But change does not only reflect to achievement in terms of monetary value, position we held or the friends we mix with. I have found a good website that can provide us a simple guideline to implement change in our life on the balance way. The website address would be, http://stress.about.com/od/lowstresslifestyle/tp/happiness.htm . Some of the highlights and comments from the website is as below:
“We all want to be happy, and often we strive for that new car, bigger house, or promotion at work in order to find the elusive goal of a happy and satisfied life. However, often the car or house or new position come, but doesn't bring the happiness we expected. The following goals and changes can be relatively easily attained and can bring increased and lasting happiness. Now is the time to start incorporating them into your life!”
I totally agree with the above statements. Some people will say, they live to eat but to me I eat to live. Same as the above, I change to live a happy life not live to change myself. We change for a cause, the cause should not be just for the sake of change but for a deeper meaning in life where to achieve happiness J Just my thought, not all may agree to me though.
1. Find More Time For Yourself
“The feeling of not having enough freedom to pursue quality time with our families, revitalizing solitary activities, or other things that would nurture us can leave us feeling stressed and unhappy. If you would like to increase your level of happiness and life satisfaction this year, one of the best changes you can make is to find more time in your schedule for a life that reflects what you’d really like to be doing. These steps can help.”
Too much time is spend on chasing the quality of life but often we forget the essential necessity in life. Can differentiate between quality of life and essential necessity in life? One might have different interpretations of these, and I care not to elaborate further as I know most of people would understand this, just they often mixed up between the quality and the necessity. You may be able to earn tons of money for a day, perhaps up to 15 man hours, but what is left to enjoy those that we have sought. Who is there to wait for us to share the joy of the achievements? I can wait for a day, then another day, perhaps a few days more, if you are sincere I may wait up to a month, let say I have nothing much to do, I may wait up to a year but ever thinking what if it takes more than a year? Time past quicker than how we can realize and past time will never be replaced and there is obviously no turning back in life as there are no time machines in our life, if there is, how many times you would want to change your life as changes is never ending? So we should be fair in life, spend time to find quality in life, but do spend quality time enjoying the quality life that you have earned for. We can’t bring our wealth or fame to our grave, why not live life to the fullest? Don’t get me wrong, I am not asking you to spend your last cent before we check out of this world, we may leave some behind so that our loved ones need not work from zero up again. It is something like a small capital for our younger generations I guess.
2. Make Smart Money Choices
“Many people think they'll be happier if they can just get their hands on more money. However, once beyond the poverty level, more money doesn't usually bring more happiness, because with increased means often come increased desires. A more helpful solution is to make the money you already have to feel a greater sense of freedom and satisfaction in life. These tips can show you how to make the most of your current financial situation. “
Agree as human do have a sense of greed in them. There is always need to have, good to have and choice to have. It would be a need to have $1000.00 per month, but it would surely be good to have $1500.00 per month instead but if given the choice to have $2000.00 or more would not be too bad after all. We normally think that we do deserve the best in life and the best often refers to the infinite. Agree with me?
3. Take Care of Your Body
“If your health fails, it can overshadow everything else that’s going on in your life. From major health problems to minor aches and pains, health can really impact happiness and stress levels. Making a commitment to taking on healthier habits this year can have a far-reaching payoff: you’ll feel better in everything you do. Here are a few healthy habits that carry a big impact.”
Agree to this again. We always ask more for quality in life, but sickness and disease is never considered as one of them. What is quantity if there is no quality as we are sick and not well? We often ignore this as we took no notice of it until it is affected and we starts to regret by saying I should have done so and so but it is often too late already.
4. Adopt Stress Relievers That Work For You
“There are many things that contribute to a happy and satisfied feeling about life, but excess stress can put a damper on even the best conditions. If you're in a state of chronic stress, it's much more difficult to enjoy life. Find some stress relievers you can use and you will feel more at peace when things get hectic.”
Nothing much to explain on this, it is much self explanatory.
5. Get Involved In A Cause That You Believe In
“People are generally happier when they're living a life of meaning. And while you may not be able to cast off all of your worldly posessions in search of the true meaning of life, you can get involved in a cause that's important to you with minimal time, effort or cost. And even though you can get tax breaks, new friends or a cleaner house out of the deal, what you find in the way of life satisfaction will be the real reward. While you'll be helping others, you will truly receive more than you give. Why not start now?”
As the above states, we need to have a meaning to life in order to be generally happy. Find some worthy cause and work towards it, it will give you some other things to look at besides work. This is what we can say to achieve balance in life.
Changing.
This is what most of us are aware of, but took not much importance in life on this topic. Very seldom people would reflect the change on their life or bothered to review the changes that they have undergo. Perhaps most of the time, we are not trying hard to change, but we are trying hard to admit that one has change. We will always have the impression that the change was minimal and it has not much affect on one’s daily lifestyle. From my view, change is always change. Change is noticeable if one take the time to notice and review back the change that they have undergo. Just that sometimes we don’t bother to look at our changes as change happens so naturally, most of the time without us even noticing it. We just let it happen and having in mind it will just fall into its place, but do things just fall into its place or do we need to put in the effort as well? Why can’t we get some control of our life and determine where the things fall and we could arrange it in proper that taking our luck again.
Changed.
Many people may bump into you and says, you have had changes in life, you are a whole new you. That time, we realize that we have change. Why we realize? Because the comments came from someone else and would that comment be of positive or negative? Frankly, it could be both as words can be twisted and may have different meanings at different time. As were we being told that we have undergo some change without us planning or realizing it, now we know that change has taken place. But are we so naïve that we are unaware that change is taking place, perhaps we are too comfortable of the minor changes that is happen daily in life and eventually when we realize of the change, it already has been a big leap.
Changes-Changing-Changed is a cycle of changing in life for each individual. It is surely happen in our stages of life and it will have effect on life. To me, change is inevitable but we can always change to what we think would be best. Best here would always refers to myself, the people around me (I can’t be too selfish), to my loved ones, to my friends and to those who will walk in our life and would eventually leave their footprint in our life. We don’t change for a single cause but we do change as a whole. Changes can be good and can be bad. Good and bad may have different meaning after all and we can never define a single meaning for it.
My dear friend have gone through changes which I may never pint point as how I did last time. I can’t say changes were in the form of negative or positive, just that the changes that took place have change her as a whole. Despite the changes that have taken place, she will still be my dear friend for today and the days to come. Just that would always have the idea of turning back time in order to live the one time in life where we were all so comfortable with and where we have found our true self at the time. Sad to say, the time will never be the same, so does our friendship but I do know for sure you will always be my dear friend. This I am certain but I hope you don’t think that I have abandon you, I will never do such thing. Love you always and may you find your true happiness and don’t let it go once you find it my friend.
Tuesday, June 26, 2007
The things about Success and Failure
"think doubt and fail, think victory and succeed, i can go thru it... "
How true would this statement applicable for you? People always says, think before you act. When come to think of it, sure will consists of Pros and Cons as we can always see things from both sides. If we only look on the Pros, we call ourselves Optimistic, look only on the Cons, we call ourselves Pessimistic. But in life we are often been advised to have some balance in life, so to choose to be Optimistic or Pessimistic. For my own preference, I would like to have some balance where I would like to be Optimistic yet Pessimistic in life. When I open up myself for possibilities, I can see so much more but seeing much more does not guarantee more is the better. Sometimes in life, the more we get, might not be better and it turns out to be what we have earlier could be the best.
Back to the phrase above, ‘think doubt and fail’. If don’t think rationally, from both side we could end up failing or losing. The second phrase, ‘think victory and succeed’. If everybody think of victory and success but never think of the negative side, would there be so many losers in the society? To be truthful, I think we have to be just in life. Think rationally and not just say ‘I can go thru it’ by just following to phrases like ‘think doubt and fail, think victory and succeed’.
There could be more to the success in life and the success can be of so many variations. If you could settle down with a general definition of success, let me know. That would be your greatest success ever achieve :)
"I CAN DO IT!"
A positive phrase. As short as it can be, as the phrase itself is not too long. It is good to be positive at times :)
Expectation vs Reality
Bad start of the day. Woke up at 10:30am, was struggling as my whole body was still pretty much tired. Prefer to sleep in until late or have a bit more of rest before totally wake up, but know that I need to get up in order to reach office on time, which is before 12 noon to have lunch with one of my colleague and also had a bad stomach today, feels like something was not right.
Looking at the time, I am running late already and if I don’t get on time, then surely get complaints. So decided to drive as quick as I could to office, rush in left, rush in right hoping not to bump into any speed trap or etc. Drove for about 30 minutes, from Bangsar to Cyberjaya at the speed of 80kmph to 135kmph. Eventually reach office and greeted my colleagues and sat down. Look at my watch, it is still minutes to noon. Great, I arrive on time.
But soon I got to know that she already got a lunch date with another colleague so do I want to follow? I guess pretty much not. Though I know the guy, but I don’t think I would want to join them as they go with all those whom I am not close with and it is so weird to be seated together and talk so little. So disappointed with her, perhaps I was stupid in the first place for expecting so much.
Don’t have the mood to go for my lunch, no mood for nothing already. I thought that I would be having a good day today, but who knows within minutes, my mood can be totally screwed. Now I am just waiting to off work at 11pm. Counting down, there is another 10 hours more to go. Why am I in so early?
Looking at the time, I am running late already and if I don’t get on time, then surely get complaints. So decided to drive as quick as I could to office, rush in left, rush in right hoping not to bump into any speed trap or etc. Drove for about 30 minutes, from Bangsar to Cyberjaya at the speed of 80kmph to 135kmph. Eventually reach office and greeted my colleagues and sat down. Look at my watch, it is still minutes to noon. Great, I arrive on time.
But soon I got to know that she already got a lunch date with another colleague so do I want to follow? I guess pretty much not. Though I know the guy, but I don’t think I would want to join them as they go with all those whom I am not close with and it is so weird to be seated together and talk so little. So disappointed with her, perhaps I was stupid in the first place for expecting so much.
Don’t have the mood to go for my lunch, no mood for nothing already. I thought that I would be having a good day today, but who knows within minutes, my mood can be totally screwed. Now I am just waiting to off work at 11pm. Counting down, there is another 10 hours more to go. Why am I in so early?
Monday, June 25, 2007
Another not productive day
Date: 25 June 2007-06-25
Time: 10:09pm
Mood: Moody (Below average)
Things I am doing now: Nothing, waiting for time to pass by.
Things I want to do: Go home, rest, watch some movie, play some game, catch up with my sleep and etc.
Things I don’t want to do: Staying in office until late hours.
When do I want to go home: As soon as possible, but not now. Earliest, 11pm if things are on the positive side.
What are you looking forward to: Malaysia Independence Day.
Why looking forward to this day: Independence is a special day as it will be from now until Independence Day before we would be having Public Holiday.
Guess I am not at my top shape as i am wasting my time and blogging nonsense stuff. But the above comments are for real. I am really feeling tired and looking forward to a good rest. Sigh, bored of work or being influenced by one of my friend, Sarah. She is transferring her laziness virus to me on daily basis. Guess i am fully infected now. No antivirus would be able to clean this deadly virus. Needs to refresh and re-image soon to re boost my energy to be productive.
Weekend (Sunday) was a really lazy day. Just stayed at home to watch some movies, play PS2 games and did nothing much. Gosh, know this is real bad as i am not really productive in life, guess i need to find something interesting to do in order to lead a healthy life after all.
Time: 10:09pm
Mood: Moody (Below average)
Things I am doing now: Nothing, waiting for time to pass by.
Things I want to do: Go home, rest, watch some movie, play some game, catch up with my sleep and etc.
Things I don’t want to do: Staying in office until late hours.
When do I want to go home: As soon as possible, but not now. Earliest, 11pm if things are on the positive side.
What are you looking forward to: Malaysia Independence Day.
Why looking forward to this day: Independence is a special day as it will be from now until Independence Day before we would be having Public Holiday.
Guess I am not at my top shape as i am wasting my time and blogging nonsense stuff. But the above comments are for real. I am really feeling tired and looking forward to a good rest. Sigh, bored of work or being influenced by one of my friend, Sarah. She is transferring her laziness virus to me on daily basis. Guess i am fully infected now. No antivirus would be able to clean this deadly virus. Needs to refresh and re-image soon to re boost my energy to be productive.
Weekend (Sunday) was a really lazy day. Just stayed at home to watch some movies, play PS2 games and did nothing much. Gosh, know this is real bad as i am not really productive in life, guess i need to find something interesting to do in order to lead a healthy life after all.
Sunday, June 24, 2007
What love means and where it leads?
Today was a nice and easy day as i went out with my friend to BSC for a walk and chat. Had some snack there and chat. It was some time since the last time we had a good time to chat. Been so busy with work lately which cost me precious time with my friends. Good day and good outing, worth every minute and time.
Had some chat with another friend of mine, an old pal but seldom have heart to heart chat since we both embark our road on our career.From the conversation, my mood change from Good to Moody. Moody really or there is some other reasons? I think is worried. Why worried? Worried of two of my valuable friend. I hope for the best for them, but it seems dissapointment after disapointment and worried after worried but it seems that nothing much will change.
What is love, where it goes, what it will returns, when it will start, how it will start, when it will end, how it would end, what we would be with love, what it would be without love and etc.
I eventually came out with the answer, that is you will never know the answer. Let love lead the way and let it show us the path. I would really like to see how things goes from here onwards for both my friends.
May love lead the way, but for me - let tiredness lead my sleep :-)
Had some chat with another friend of mine, an old pal but seldom have heart to heart chat since we both embark our road on our career.From the conversation, my mood change from Good to Moody. Moody really or there is some other reasons? I think is worried. Why worried? Worried of two of my valuable friend. I hope for the best for them, but it seems dissapointment after disapointment and worried after worried but it seems that nothing much will change.
What is love, where it goes, what it will returns, when it will start, how it will start, when it will end, how it would end, what we would be with love, what it would be without love and etc.
I eventually came out with the answer, that is you will never know the answer. Let love lead the way and let it show us the path. I would really like to see how things goes from here onwards for both my friends.
May love lead the way, but for me - let tiredness lead my sleep :-)
Friday, June 22, 2007
What has our world become?
Sleep=DULL, Mood=DULL, Work=DULL, Neck=DULL ==> This is how my day started today.
As usual, went to work to work, as if i can go to work to play :P I am much irritated by my neck, which is still recovering but not fully recovered. Gosh, i really had a dreadful week because of my neck, which have been aching non-stop. Sigh.
Work been boring as usual, nothing much happen - ate ice-cream, play some games, chat with colleagues (Sarah, Wan Leng, Khairul and etc), surf some net and most of all, counting the seconds to 11pm, so that i can go back home. But today been a little different, Chee Wei unable to login to his own machine, hence stayed a while to help him out, to delete his profile. Haha.
Some interesting topics that we brought up during the conversation would be the current situation in our country, especially the safety of the public and especially the women. Been seeing some stupid article about the event taking place in Johor and some certain areas where rape case are building up. Actually not the rape case building up, but the uncountable desired of those pathetic men running on the loose, threatening the society armed with dangerous equipment (knife, parang and etc) and most of all, their 'body parts' which could be more hurting than the weapons that they carry.
One of the article i found from the online newspaper (source:http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2007/6/21/nation/18088466&sec=nation)
JOHOR BARU: A schoolgirl was raped by four men and another by a bogus policeman in two separate incidents within a six-hour period.
In the first incident, a 16-year-old schoolgirl who had quarrelled with her boyfriend went to calm her feelings at a lake in Taman Tasik Dahlia, Pasir Gudang, at about 12.30am here yesterday.
Four men on motorcycles turned up, started harassing her and forced her on to one of the motorcycles.
They then took her to a secluded area near some factories in Tanjung Langsat and took turns to rape her.
After that, they dropped her off at the lake and fled.
The victim flagged down a taxi to get home and later lodged a police report.
A police source said they are looking for the men aged between 20 and 30.
In the second incident, a 14-year-old schoolgirl and her 13-year-old brother were waiting for the school bus in Tampoi at 6.30am yesterday when a man drove up to them and identified himself as a policeman.
He told them to get into his car and demanded their MyKads.
When they could not produce the cards, the man took the siblings back to their house in Taman Johor.
However, when the girl’s brother went inside to get the identification cards, he sped off with the girl.
The man took the girl to a secluded area in Technology Park in Senai and raped her and left.
The girl managed to hail passers-by who took her home.
She lodged a report at the Tampoi police station at 9.30am, and was sent to Sultanah Aminah Hospital for a medical check-up.
Police urged anyone with information on both cases to contact the police hotline at 07-221-2999 or the nearest police station.
Serious crime appears to be on the upswing.
On June 12, three men raped a 19-year-old girl and forced her 22-year-old boyfriend to watch.
The following day, a group of armed men took a couple on a terror ride before raping the 35-year-old woman in the presence of her friend, who was slashed.
On Monday, an unemployed man and his seven-month pregnant wife were found murdered in their home in Taman Desa Anggerik in Seremban.
What kind of world are we living at now? They should be punished severely for taking advantages on those weaker ones and should not be pardon so easily for the offense that they have done. Lets hope the steps taken by the authority would be sufficient to curb this issue for once.
My day will come to a resting time now as the show Super Natural ends in few minutes time. Looking forward for tomorrow? Yeah, i would say so. Tomorrow will be having the open house at my friends house in Cheras. Gonna have BBQ and lots and lots of chatting time with my bunch of friends. See you guys tomorrow. Until then, good night :)
As usual, went to work to work, as if i can go to work to play :P I am much irritated by my neck, which is still recovering but not fully recovered. Gosh, i really had a dreadful week because of my neck, which have been aching non-stop. Sigh.
Work been boring as usual, nothing much happen - ate ice-cream, play some games, chat with colleagues (Sarah, Wan Leng, Khairul and etc), surf some net and most of all, counting the seconds to 11pm, so that i can go back home. But today been a little different, Chee Wei unable to login to his own machine, hence stayed a while to help him out, to delete his profile. Haha.
Some interesting topics that we brought up during the conversation would be the current situation in our country, especially the safety of the public and especially the women. Been seeing some stupid article about the event taking place in Johor and some certain areas where rape case are building up. Actually not the rape case building up, but the uncountable desired of those pathetic men running on the loose, threatening the society armed with dangerous equipment (knife, parang and etc) and most of all, their 'body parts' which could be more hurting than the weapons that they carry.
One of the article i found from the online newspaper (source:http://thestar.com.my/news/story.asp?file=/2007/6/21/nation/18088466&sec=nation)
JOHOR BARU: A schoolgirl was raped by four men and another by a bogus policeman in two separate incidents within a six-hour period.
In the first incident, a 16-year-old schoolgirl who had quarrelled with her boyfriend went to calm her feelings at a lake in Taman Tasik Dahlia, Pasir Gudang, at about 12.30am here yesterday.
Four men on motorcycles turned up, started harassing her and forced her on to one of the motorcycles.
They then took her to a secluded area near some factories in Tanjung Langsat and took turns to rape her.
After that, they dropped her off at the lake and fled.
The victim flagged down a taxi to get home and later lodged a police report.
A police source said they are looking for the men aged between 20 and 30.
In the second incident, a 14-year-old schoolgirl and her 13-year-old brother were waiting for the school bus in Tampoi at 6.30am yesterday when a man drove up to them and identified himself as a policeman.
He told them to get into his car and demanded their MyKads.
When they could not produce the cards, the man took the siblings back to their house in Taman Johor.
However, when the girl’s brother went inside to get the identification cards, he sped off with the girl.
The man took the girl to a secluded area in Technology Park in Senai and raped her and left.
The girl managed to hail passers-by who took her home.
She lodged a report at the Tampoi police station at 9.30am, and was sent to Sultanah Aminah Hospital for a medical check-up.
Police urged anyone with information on both cases to contact the police hotline at 07-221-2999 or the nearest police station.
Serious crime appears to be on the upswing.
On June 12, three men raped a 19-year-old girl and forced her 22-year-old boyfriend to watch.
The following day, a group of armed men took a couple on a terror ride before raping the 35-year-old woman in the presence of her friend, who was slashed.
On Monday, an unemployed man and his seven-month pregnant wife were found murdered in their home in Taman Desa Anggerik in Seremban.
What kind of world are we living at now? They should be punished severely for taking advantages on those weaker ones and should not be pardon so easily for the offense that they have done. Lets hope the steps taken by the authority would be sufficient to curb this issue for once.
My day will come to a resting time now as the show Super Natural ends in few minutes time. Looking forward for tomorrow? Yeah, i would say so. Tomorrow will be having the open house at my friends house in Cheras. Gonna have BBQ and lots and lots of chatting time with my bunch of friends. See you guys tomorrow. Until then, good night :)
Thursday, June 21, 2007
A dull working day
Today at work was not really like going to work as i am not in the mood for work. Too bored with work i guess and as usual, i need something new in life, else i will be so depressed and dull. I need to get something new in life to move forward in life. Perhaps this would be the biggest push for me to resume blogging about my life and hope this blog would not end up as a complain site after all.
Wake up as usual-lazy, tired and dreadful to get to work. Eventually end up in office having the slight stiff neck that was going on for about a week. Gosh. Planned to get off work early and get my neck fixed up. Guess got to ask for the green light from Chee Lung before leaving. But it is good, as i am kind of not feeling like working today. Haha...
When i reach office, guess what? Got the quick summary of the mini gathering meeting that just took place. It seems that the maximum quota have been reached. What quota? Quota for the number of staff that have been set earlier. What this means? Means no more conversion of TPC to fulltime staff. What this means to me? No chance for me for the straight conversion, at most will only be able to be converted to contract staff. Difference is, one with X amount of years of service where one will only be limited to one whole freaking year.
Call this bad luck or what, why must it be near my turn it happens. But guess it is even worst for Sarah. Why? Was already preparing for the big day, but was turn down like that and on top of that, some other people who came in the same time, they already converted to what they call the 'job too good to be let go off' but seems our chance ran out on us. Adding on, perhaps the dissapointment that is taking place now. Gosh. What can we do? Don't think we can demand much. Anyhow, we did do our best and work our ass out for the team, but end up like this call me frustrated out or what. Just dissapointed i guess but there is nothing much that i can do. But perhaps i will try something since we know of this news. Guess will try to get a new job if my lucky star is still shining. Wish me luck then :-)
The next bad news is that the support for Phase 1B might be extended like how i am on extended service now but i am not really looking forward to extend the extended support. Should the support really need to be extended due to the 'overwhelming' demand, guess i would not be in this time as i can feel that i am totally burn out and tired out of this lousy life that i am living now, away from parent, away from friends and away from loved ones. What could be worst than having to live life without loved ones?
One interesting that i look up to would be the World Vision, Sponsor a Child Programme. Currently looking at those countries where Malaysia is having their project on, but seems like currently only available for Thailand and Indonesia. Call me bad ass or what but don't seems to be interested with these two locations. Why? Cause they fight among themselves and live a life full of ruckus and fighting. Guess this kills my mood for helping, not to discriminate them, but just that sometimes we would do things for a cause and the cause must be worthy to the person who is lending the helping hand.
I am currently looking into countries like Mongolia or Myanmar. Perhaps most of my interest lies in these two countries as they live more peacefully together. Will try to contact the organisation to see if there is any child in need of help. Lets see how it goes but i am keen on this. Had words with Sarah, she is also quite keen on this. Perhaps we can both share to sponsor a child so that the burden is not that heavy per month basis...
Gosh, its already late now and i will soon crash into my bed for a good night sleep and a good rest for my neck. Until then, adios.
Wake up as usual-lazy, tired and dreadful to get to work. Eventually end up in office having the slight stiff neck that was going on for about a week. Gosh. Planned to get off work early and get my neck fixed up. Guess got to ask for the green light from Chee Lung before leaving. But it is good, as i am kind of not feeling like working today. Haha...
When i reach office, guess what? Got the quick summary of the mini gathering meeting that just took place. It seems that the maximum quota have been reached. What quota? Quota for the number of staff that have been set earlier. What this means? Means no more conversion of TPC to fulltime staff. What this means to me? No chance for me for the straight conversion, at most will only be able to be converted to contract staff. Difference is, one with X amount of years of service where one will only be limited to one whole freaking year.
Call this bad luck or what, why must it be near my turn it happens. But guess it is even worst for Sarah. Why? Was already preparing for the big day, but was turn down like that and on top of that, some other people who came in the same time, they already converted to what they call the 'job too good to be let go off' but seems our chance ran out on us. Adding on, perhaps the dissapointment that is taking place now. Gosh. What can we do? Don't think we can demand much. Anyhow, we did do our best and work our ass out for the team, but end up like this call me frustrated out or what. Just dissapointed i guess but there is nothing much that i can do. But perhaps i will try something since we know of this news. Guess will try to get a new job if my lucky star is still shining. Wish me luck then :-)
The next bad news is that the support for Phase 1B might be extended like how i am on extended service now but i am not really looking forward to extend the extended support. Should the support really need to be extended due to the 'overwhelming' demand, guess i would not be in this time as i can feel that i am totally burn out and tired out of this lousy life that i am living now, away from parent, away from friends and away from loved ones. What could be worst than having to live life without loved ones?
One interesting that i look up to would be the World Vision, Sponsor a Child Programme. Currently looking at those countries where Malaysia is having their project on, but seems like currently only available for Thailand and Indonesia. Call me bad ass or what but don't seems to be interested with these two locations. Why? Cause they fight among themselves and live a life full of ruckus and fighting. Guess this kills my mood for helping, not to discriminate them, but just that sometimes we would do things for a cause and the cause must be worthy to the person who is lending the helping hand.
I am currently looking into countries like Mongolia or Myanmar. Perhaps most of my interest lies in these two countries as they live more peacefully together. Will try to contact the organisation to see if there is any child in need of help. Lets see how it goes but i am keen on this. Had words with Sarah, she is also quite keen on this. Perhaps we can both share to sponsor a child so that the burden is not that heavy per month basis...
Gosh, its already late now and i will soon crash into my bed for a good night sleep and a good rest for my neck. Until then, adios.
Wednesday, June 20, 2007
My First Post - Stiff Neck too
This would be my first post in this new blog site that i have created not long ago. Currently watching SuperNatural Season 1 (ep.8). Life been boring lately as i am heavily involved in my work, especially the shift works. It really burns me out, although my shift starts at 3.00pm and end at 11.00pm. Normally i will reach office by 12.00 noon to have a good parking space and also to have lunch with my colleagues. This shift job has been for about 3 months already, beginning from April 07 and will conclude by end of June 07. That would be the day where my shift work will come to an end and where my normal life would returns.
My neck, been still stiff for the past week. Will be exactly a week by tomorrow, but at least i can't complain much as my condition is getting better now. I really need to fully recover from my current condition as it is already affecting my daily routine. Can't fully turn my head to my left side also can't nod my head, means no yes to anything. Anyhow, since i am feeling better now, i need not go to the Chinese 'doctor' again to massage my neck. It hurts the other time, but its not like i have any other choice than to stand the pain for 15 minutes rather than having the stiff neck for days. That would be more dreadful.
This i really learned a lesson as i never expected the stiff neck to be this bad. Conclusion: No point you get myself so worked up until i don't get the comfort in life. Eventually, my life counts more, to live life to the fullest :-)
My neck, been still stiff for the past week. Will be exactly a week by tomorrow, but at least i can't complain much as my condition is getting better now. I really need to fully recover from my current condition as it is already affecting my daily routine. Can't fully turn my head to my left side also can't nod my head, means no yes to anything. Anyhow, since i am feeling better now, i need not go to the Chinese 'doctor' again to massage my neck. It hurts the other time, but its not like i have any other choice than to stand the pain for 15 minutes rather than having the stiff neck for days. That would be more dreadful.
This i really learned a lesson as i never expected the stiff neck to be this bad. Conclusion: No point you get myself so worked up until i don't get the comfort in life. Eventually, my life counts more, to live life to the fullest :-)
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